Power in Telling Our Stories

By Jada Carter, M.S.

When we share a piece of ourselves, we share our stories to the world. I write this inspired by the powerful words of Amanda Gorman who spoke at the inauguration of the newly appointed President Joe Biden and Vice President Kamala Harris. This beautiful and young Black Queen who wore her natural hair as a crown on her head as intended for it to be. I was captivated to see the first woman and woman of color, VP Harris, from my family’s hometown in Oakland, CA that we have progressed in since the 1940’s, to make it to the White House. Then to witness Ms. Amanda Gorman, this powerful and eloquent African American young woman speak on the possibilities of healing, empowerment and the impact of division in our country, was alluring to say the least. 

 So, I share a piece of my story to encourage those who are afraid and weary. Being vulnerable and telling others our most intimate secrets is scary. As I’ve learned over the years and was confirmed by Ms. Gorman “Quiet isn’t always peace.” I’ve found my peace by confiding in my allies and community, even as a therapist. I have struggled beyond what I would like to admit, to be where I am today, as a first generation, proud, silly, queer Black woman. Both learning about and advocating for the mental health of myself and my community has healed me in the most unimaginable ways possible. I want to encourage those who find silence as a coping mechanism or view discussing your feelings as weak to rise above the stigma. Let us be comfortable in being uncomfortable and find healing in a time of such chaos and uncertainty.